RainMinded – By Rain Wickham

RainMinded

By Rain Wickham

Welcome to RainMinded

Well, here we are ~ my little corner of the internet is officially live. RainMinded has been swirling in my head (and scribbled across a ridiculous number of notebooks) for ages and now it’s finally out in the wild.

This is the space where I’ll be pouring out stories, reflections and rambles ~ sometimes funny, sometimes messy, sometimes a little spiritual ~ but always real.

From compooost fails to kookaburra breakfast thefts, from heartbreak to healing, this is where I figure it all out (pfft, said no one ever!)

I’ve dreamed of this space for a long time ~ a home for all the storms, the sunshine, the sass and the softness. RainMinded is where I get to be fully me: unfiltered, creative, slightly chaotic and hopefully a little inspiring too ♡

I’ll still be around on socials (work never sleeps), but if you want the deeper rambles ~ this is the place. Think of socials as the trailer. This is the full movie (popcorn optional, wine encouraged).

So kick off your shoes, grab a cuppa (or wine) and come walk with me through the wild, weird and wonderful.

Welcome to my journey ~ welcome to RainMinded ♡

Love Rain x

Rain’s Rambles

A Late Bloomer… or Right on Time?

So… I got accepted into the Bachelor of Criminology and Criminal Justice + Social Work and I’m frothin’. Like, proper buzzing! I know, I know……I’m a little “late to the party” (I’m 4……something…..a lady never tells 😌) But maybe this isn’t late at all. Maybe this is perfect timing. I’ve spent years learning humans the…
Soul Sparks

When Stress Knocks on the Door

Stress… it’s wild, isn’t it? One moment we’re fine and the next our whole body is speaking a language we never consciously learned ~ tight chest, racing thoughts, shaky hands, stomach doing gymnastics for no reason at all ♡ Our bodies are ancient creatures. They don’t lie and they don’t wait politely for a better…
Rain’s Rambles

Be the change

The world is changing ~ fast and not always kindly. Every click, every scan, every “upgrade” seems to pull us further from each other. The digital ID ~ they say it’s for safety, for convenience ~ but I can feel it tightening. Control disguised as progress. Comfort wrapped in compliance! But I believe the real…
Vintage Sniffer

The Quiet Magic of Vintage

There’s something about vintage that just……pulls at the soul, doesn’t it? It’s more than clothing. More than old lamps (four of them… shhh, no judgement please 😅) More than quirky little treasures that somehow always find their way home with us ♡ Vintage pieces carry stories. They’ve lived whole lives before they ever touched our…
Rain’s Rambles

Always You — by Chloe Fisher

RainMinded Reflections ♡ I just finished Always You by Chloe Fisher and woah, I’m still feeling it! I don’t even know this sista, but somehow, after reading her story, it feels like I do ♡ This book isn’t just a memoir — it’s an experience. I laughed, I cried, I felt every single word. I…
Rain’s Rambles

The Invisible String

There’s this invisible string that ties us to our babies ~ one that never really fades, no matter how old they get (my oldest is 25!) I feel it every day. A gentle tug when I think of them, a pull when they’re struggling, a little spark of calm inside me when I know they’re…
Soul Sparks

All the Humans

Sometimes, the world feels so heavy, doesn’t it? So many hearts breaking quietly. So many stories untold, eyes holding more than words ever could. For me, one of the hardest part of being human ~ is to feel it all and know you can’t fix it all. To see the ache in others and wish…
Soul Sparks

The Quiet Power of Gratitude

Sometimes life feels like a lot, doesn’t it? The to-do lists, the endless “what next?” the relentless bills coming in! But then, out of nowhere, a little moment stops you ~ a warm cuppa in your hands, sunlight that touches your face, laughter that lingers longer than you expected. It “boops” you on the nose…
Spirit Woven

Mind Gardening

Some days it feels like the whole world’s on fire and our phones are the smoke. The endless scroll, the noise, the outrage, the propaganda ~ all of it quietly seeping into our roots. We say we’re “just checking in” but sometimes it feels more like being plugged into a collective panic machine. What a…
Soul Sparks

Dear Past, Thank You for the Lessons

Dear Past, Thank you for all the lessons.The messy ones, the painful ones, the ones I didn’t understand until much later. You were a wild teacher, but you showed me what I needed to see ~ who I was, what I could handle and how deeply I could grow ♡ There were moments I wanted…
Rain’s Rambles

Let’s Talk About Talking (a.k.a. Gossip)

There’s something a little icky about gossip, isn’t there? That slow drip of conversation that starts as “concern” and ends up twisting into something that leaves a funny feeling in the pit of your stomach ♡ Lately, I’ve been thinking about how easy it is to fall into it ~ even accidentally. Small towns, small…
Soul Sparks

Empaths, Boundaries & The Quest to Save the World (A love letter to the ones who feel it all)

Some of us came here wired for empathy. We feel everything ~ the happys, the saddness, the collective ache of the world ~ as if it’s all happening inside us. It’s beautiful, but it’s also bloody exhausting. Empathy is our superpower ♡ But it’s also our soft spot ~ the part of us that keeps…
Rain’s Rambles

The Art of Surrender (Part Two)

So…..remember that post I wrote about letting go? Yeah. I have a confession. When I wrote it, I wanted to believe I’d fully surrendered ~ that I was gliding through the storm with barefoot grace and enlightened calm 😳 But honestly? I was more like clinging to the steering wheel of life whispering, “I’m fine,…
Soul Sparks

Earth Daughters

Where Young Women Grow, Grounded in Their Flow I’ve been creating something beautiful for our young women ~ a project called Earth Daughters ♡ It’s a gentle rites-of-passage journey for young women stepping into their menarche ~ that sacred threshold where girlhood begins to unfold into womanhood. Earth Daughters is about more than “the talk”…
Rain’s Rambles

Letting go!

Wow! That one really knows how to test me. (And if I’m honest, I’m a little stubborn when it comes to “surrender”) It’s not a neat chapter with a clear ending ~ it’s a lifelong rhythm of release, a practice of surrendering again and again……. This week, I’ve had to say goodbye to a lot.…
Soul Sparks

When the Kids Come Home

Last night, I nearly had a heart attack. I’d just come home from a party, feeling all smug about staying out past 9pm, when I walked into our cozy rainforest cocoon and from the dark, a couple of shadowy figures casually said, “hey” Naturally, I old-lady yelped, “Who the fuck are you?!” (Because obviously, I’m…
Rain’s Rambles

I Would Really Like to Exclude Myself from This Narrative

The world feels unsettled lately and I can feel it mirrored inside me. Life lately feels like a roller coaster with a dodgy safety bar and I’m ready to get off, stat! We’re back in the rental market (send prayers, crystals and snacks) And wow ~ it’s hectic. Like, if the Hunger Games and “The…
Rain’s Rambles

It’s Not Giving Up ~ It’s “Maybe Not Right Now”

Isn’t time a funny thing? One minute you’re cruising along, everything flowing, plans falling into place ~ and then bam ~ the universe hits shuffle! Suddenly what felt easy starts feeling heavy. The to-do list multiplies overnight. Your brain starts doing that tap dance between “I’ve got this” and “I might actually combust” I’ve been…
Rain’s Rambles

When the Ground shifts

Well… this one’s a little hard to write. We’ve just been given notice ~ 90 days to move out. And while I know “home” isn’t always about four walls, this place has been our sanctuary. It’s hard to imagine leaving it behind :'( Uncertainty is a funny (and slightly cruel) thing. You tell yourself to…
Soul Sparks

Showing Up for Your Human

A lot of humans ask how we still love each other ~ like, really love each other. The kind where you still laugh, still talk about dreams, still check in just to say, “Hey, you ok my love?” We’re Rain and Wick ~ married 12 years, together 18. We’ve built a whole life (and a…
Rain’s Rambles, Vintage Sniffer

The Thrill of the Op Shop Find

There’s nothing quite like the thrill of an op shop treasure hunt. You walk in with zero expectations ~ maybe just to “have a quick look” (famous last words) and suddenly you’re holding something that needs to come home with you….immediately! Yesterday we took a drive to Mullum ~ that dreamy, boho little town tucked…
Spirit Woven

The Pull of the Moon

I feel her and see her all at once ~ through my bedroom window her glow drifts in, making me feel held, like she’s a stage-5 clinger and I’m saved under her ‘faves’ in her cosmic phone book (kinda cute) The moon’s getting full again. They say this one’s the Harvest Moon and a supermoon…
Soul Sparks

Maybe It’s What I Needed

Some dayz, life doesn’t go to plan. You know the ones ~ the days where you want to scream “This is not what I wanted!” at the sky (or at least mutter it into your cuppa) But here’s what I’m learning ~ sometimes what doesn’t go our way is still going our way. It just…
Soul Sparks

The Magic of Small Kindness

Lately, the world feels a little heavy 🙁 Sadness on the news, hurt in our communities, stress bubbling under (& over!) the surface. It can feel like too much. Like nothing we do could possibly shift the weight of it all. But did you know ~ kindness doesn’t ask us to fix everything. It just…